How To Build A Perfect Social Life.
The quality of someone’s social life significantly impacts their mental and physical health. Both brain and body may break apart without solid, long-term connections.
Individuals begin life reliant on the quality of their bond with their primary caregiver, generally their mother, for survival. Humanity’s existence as a species also depends on our ability to live in groups.
Be Open to Learning: Learning is not attached to a particular age or stage in life.
Development stopped at the exact spot where learning stops. Acquiring the right skill and knowledge will help you to pass relevant messages while interacting with others. In other words, having the proper knowledge about a subject will help you make an impact; in the absence of that, people will get bored listening to you.
Always remember that there is no new topic, but your ability to give effective teaching/conversation makes your case unique. Make good use of any knowledge that comes by; you can never tell when you will need it.
Smile: Smiling makes you more attractive; it’s the fastest way to get the attention of a Listener, the more attracted you are to someone, the easier it is for you to make them laugh, don’t frown on your face all the time. Smiling is a sign of openness; almost everybody would smile back at you and probably want to get to know you.
Participate in relevant conversations: Never allow anxiety to hold you back. Decide to talk to new people and enter into discussions even when you feel nervous. However, it’s not easy at first, but you’ll improve fast if done repeatedly.
Don’t just practice listening more and talking less but also let your mind be present anytime you are having a conversation with other people: this will enable you to know what to say and when to ask questions.
Meet the right people: if you are not sociable, the best way to be is to associate with extroverts and participate in outdoor activities. Participate in group activities and learn to be active and fun. Don’t isolate yourself by constantly scrolling down your phone while with people; keep your cell phone in your pocket.
Be Inquisitive: Learn to use the W and H method of communication in journalism to ask questions, e.g., Who is it about? What happened? When did it take place? Where did it take place? Why did it happen? This clarifies the topic and helps to analyze it before concluding.
Build Your Confidence: Travel, Hangout, visit amusement parks, monuments, museums, and exhibitions and be friendly. Talk to strangers randomly or ask them to take a picture of you with your camera or smartphone, be very kind and spark a conversation. Express your thoughts, your ideas, etc., to others; constantly doing this will make you create a good impression and impact on people as never made before.
Avoid Self hype: Exaggerated claims can sound misleading to people who know you very well, and repeatedly listening to advertisements can be boring to strangers. If there are other options to use as instance/description, make do with it unless the only option left is yourself, then you can go ahead.
Develop A Good Manner Of Approach: Most times, what keeps people close to you is a good attitude/right sense of humor. There is a significant difference between “Please can l have a cup of water” and “Give me water,” “Please can l See Your Boss” and I want to see your Boss, “Please Can l have your number” and “Give me your number” knowing the right thing to say or right way to act is what keeps you going: One of those requests is likely not to be granted by a sensitive person, or they can find an excuse not to present it; This is because you are not entitled to have all your request from others, but your ability to use right attitude is what may give you all; if available.
Be Versatile: Know everything happening around you, read books, news ask questions but don’t involve in the controversial topic ( it can lead to gathering unnecessary enemies)
Pay Attention To Your Body Languages: This is where most people mess themselves up. The worst thing that can happen to any individual is to think that any opposite sex they meet is sexually attracted to them. Not everyone is sexually stupid; You look disgusting when you make sexual moves or look at someone who is not interested.
At times you may end up not passing the appropriate message or making an impact; This is because you’ve built so much confidence in seduction/lust in place of self-knowledge/development.
In conclusion, Social Life will expose you to good and evil; Your ability to filter the bad and take interest is what makes you unique. The fact is that: you can’t comfortably be alone always; meeting people is like a routine.
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